They love me. They love me not.

They love me. They love me not. They love me. They love me not.

Its very difficult when someone doesn't like you. Logic may suggest we not make the opinions of others a concern. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" is a silly rhyme, but the truth is that the words and actions of others do hurt. Its not always easy to ignore the fact that someone may not like you. Most of the time, there is nothing we have done to deserve being unliked. People can be quick to make judgments against another for a variety of reasons which usually have very little to do with truth.

As time goes on, and the situation doesn't improve, it becomes easier for the unliked person to begin to dislike her accusers, too. Its only natural that a wedge would begin to grow between us and the people that do not like us. However, allowing this resentment to build will only create more pain and turmoil. It is better to be patient, to pray for God's help, and to slowly try to engage those that do not like you into a more positive relationship.

Sadly, sometimes your best attempts do not always yield the results you expect. People may continue to not accept you. You must remember that this is more a reflection of who they are and their character rather than a reflection of any deficits you may or may not possess. Ultimately, only time, patience, and lots of prayer can win you the favor of those who dislike you. Until that day, continue to pray and seek God. Realize that sometimes the Father will allow these challenges into your life to grow you and make you a better person. Instead of focusing on the wrong actions of the other person, ask God to show you what He is trying to teach you through this experience.